Wednesday, November 04, 2009

The Secret Life in Somalia: Day Wives

Strict Sharia more and more Somalis flout, with the help of cheap cellphones:

Traditional Somali marriages used to be long-planned, intricately arranged affairs normally determined by clan and sub-clan elders. But some now prefer a less formal kind of marriage, which is essentially elopement, because they do not have the economic means to face a prospective father-in-law.

Bile Farah, 25, said marriages nowadays have become more of an "entertainment."

"I don't think I'd be sane if it were not for the 'Qudbasiro', free-of-charge secret marriages," the unemployed secondary school graduate told Reuters, sitting cross-legged on a ragged mattress and sending a text message with his phone.

"I've divorced nine women already. Voluntary brides and cheap phone services -- it is the only life we have."

The concept of Day Wives, and gunfire as cover for not being home. Is this progress? Maybe if you live in Somalia.

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